Sunday, January 30, 2011

Dealing with Internal Distractions

An Introduction to Meditation in the Christian Tradition: Session 3


St. Teresa of Avila once said the human mind is like a boat where mutinous sailors have tied up the captain. The sailors all take a turn at steering the boat and of course the boat goes around in circles and eventually crashes on the rocks. That is our mind, says Teresa, full of thoughts taking us off in every direction. She also says ‘Distractions and the wandering mind are part of the human condition and can no more be avoided than eating and sleeping’.

James Finley was a Trappist monk, who was tutored by the great Thomas Merton. From Merton and the Benedictine/Trappist tradition he was introduced to the practice of meditation. In his book Introduction to Christian Meditation he writes that meditation is perplexing: “What is more we must be willing to befriend our perplexity as a way of dying to our futile efforts to grasp the ungraspable depths that meditation invites us to discover.” If, as we begin to try meditation we find our mind wanders and thoughts and feeling pop up uninvited, this is to be expected. Even experienced meditators experience wandering thoughts and emerging feelings. And as with all things, we will get better with practice. Or at least, as time passes we will learn to calmly accept that our minds like to wander.


Eknath Easwaran, a teacher of meditation, writes: There is another wonderful story, which illustrates the capricious human mind. In India the mind is often compared to the trunk of an elephant, restless, inquisitive and always straying. In India if you watch an elephant in a parade you will see how apt the comparison is; in Indian towns and villages, elephants are often taken in religious processions through the streets to the temple. The streets are crooked and narrow, lined on either side with fruit stalls and vegetable stalls. Along comes the elephant with his restless trunk, and in one quick motion it grabs a bunch of bananas. You can almost see him asking. ‘What else do you expect me to do? Here is my trunk and there are the bananas.’” He just doesn’t know what else to do with his trunk. He doesn’t pause to peel the bananas, either, or to observe all the other niceties that masters of etiquette say should be observed in eating a banana. He takes the whole bunch, opens his wide mouth, and tosses the bananas in stalk and all. Then from the next stall he picks up a coconut and tosses it in after the bananas. There is a loud crack and the elephant moves on to the next stall. No threat can make this restless trunk settle down. But the wise trainer, if he knows the elephant well, will simply give that trunk a short bamboo stick to hold on to before the procession starts. Then the elephant will walk along proudly with his head high, holding the bamboo stick in front of him like a drum major with a baton. He is not interested in bananas or coconuts any more; his trunk has something to hold on to... The human mind is very much like this trunk of an elephant. Most of the time it has nothing to hold on to. But it can be kept from straying into the world of thoughts, imagination and fantasy by simply giving it something to hold on to...


Use of a mantra, a prayer word or phrase or a focus on our own breath gives us something to hold on to, so that we can be present to the moment and to God.


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When we find our mind has wandered we simply come back to the present moment. We cannot force this way of prayer through sheer will power. Do not try too hard. Let go, relax. There is no need to fight or struggle with distractions. Simply return to the present through the use of a mantra, or a through focus on your breath. Do not get mad at distractions. This is a non-violent way of prayer. Ignore distractions by continually returning to the present. If one is distracted with thoughts 50 times in a period of meditation, when one returns to the present that is 50 times we have chosen God over the distractions.

It is important to remember that when we are bombarded with thoughts and images at our time of meditation our will is still tuned in to the presence of God. To handle distractions we do require gentleness and patience. While we are aware of distractions we should never let them disturb us. We can even see the good in distractions; they keep us awake and on the journey. They come in one door and leave by another.

John Main also reminds us that we cannot attempt to force the elimination of distractions. In fact we must let go of goals and trying to achieve anything. Meditation is centering ourselves on our inner core and allowing God to pray within us.

From the book Christian Meditation: Contemplative Prayer for a New Generation by Paul Harris


From Session 1
The Mind:
• Be present, open and awake
• Neither cling to nor reject anything. Thoughts, feelings and images will arise, be present and then pass away. Just be present and open to them. It’s like watching a sunset, or admiring a painting. Just be present. We neither think our thoughts nor try not to have them. They are like clouds floating by in the sky, or like leaves blowing past on a windy autumn day. “
• That does not mean to toss the thought out of the mind when it appears. We simply refuse to encourage it to stay. We let it come, and we let go. Henepola Gunaratana: Mindfulness

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Fr. Thomas Keating writes of this kind of prayer: “it can feel like it does not "achieve" anything, and you don’t get anything out of it. There is neither a “good” prayer period nor a “bad” prayer period. Whether there are few or many distractions is irrelevant. This is prayer stripped to its naked essentials: faith and intention. Prayer at its simplest.”

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Why Meditation?

MEDITATION IN THE CHRISTIAN TRADITION: AN INTRODUCTION Session 2

Maybe the healing and guidance that we desperately need is not going to come from one more meeting or therapy session or sermon or self help book…but from simply listening to the voice still small voice of God. Rob Bell

Why apophatic prayer?

Apophatic prayer is prayer without words or images.

Gregory the Great spoke of “resting in God.”

Thomas Keating decribes this form of meditation as: “deep calling to deep.”

He also writes:
“Silence is God’s first language; everything else is a poor translation.”

Teresa of Avila, a great mytic of the Christian tradition described this kind of prayer : ”the prayer of Quiet.” and speaks of this form of prayer, which is knowing God, “but not through a concept. It is knowing Him through love.”

Apophatic prayer emphasizes prayer as a personal relationship with God and as a movement beyond conversation with Christ to communion with Him.

God is the friend of silence. See how nature – trees, flowers, grass - grows in silence;see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence.... Mother Teresa

Meditation is Practice In… Mindfulness, Awareness, Being present, Attentiveness and Living in the Present Moment

In a little book called Awareness, Jesuit writer Anthony De Mello writes that the heart of the spiritual life is to be awake, to be alert. And he says that our lives are saturated in the holy, in God’s presence, but we are asleep and do not notice. He uses the example of a sparrow.

See one for the first time and contemplate it and be amazed at the wonder of this tiny creature. But then see a second sparrow and we say: ” Oh well I have seen a sparrow before.” We have fallen asleep. For every sparrow is a wonder. Every creature is unique. Every moment is filled with grace and beauty. Anthony De Mello - Awareness

The great mystic Meister Eckhart wrote: “Notice God in all things, for God is in all things. Every single creature is full of God and is a book about God. Every creature is a word of God. If I spend enough time with the tiniest creature, even a caterpillar, I would never have to prepare a sermon. So full of God is every creature.”

Anthony De Mello writes: We start in life, we look at reality with wonder...then wonder dies and is replaced by boredom...then if we are lucky, we will return to wonder again...”

If we are awake, alert, we may notice life`s wonder; in the things, in the people around us we may see the eternal in the everyday.

“<em>Early this morning… I went out behind the house to weed. Was kneeling in the dirt by the stable with my pinafore a mess and perspiration rolling down my back, wiped my face on my sleeve, reached for the trowel and all at once thought, Why I believe that at just this moment I am absolutely happy…The Bedloe girl’s piano scales were floating out her window…and a bottle fly was buzzing in the grass, and I saw that I was kneeling on such a beautiful green little planet:
I don’t care what else might come about, I have this moment. It belongs to me.”From Dinner at the Homesick Restaurant
by Anne Tyler


James Finley: Meditative prayer believes nothing… remembers nothing… wills nothing…feels nothing…experiences nothing… It gazes at belief and feeling and thought and memory. It allows one to see everything as if for the first time.

Meditative prayer allows us to be free of the tyranny of memories, thoughts, feelings – not to be subject to them. It gives us facility to be in the moment, to experience and not be captured.

Thomas Keating writes of this kind of prayer: “it is training in letting go…”
It is resting in the One who is beyond our words, feeling, ideas and thoughts…

“I woke in bits, like all children, piecemeal over the years. I discovered myself and the world, and forgot them,and discovered them again." Annie Dillard.





Tuesday, January 11, 2011

MEDITATION IN THE CHRISTIAN TRADITION

Notes for Session 1

Meditation? Kataphatic And Apophatic

In the Christian tradition there are, broadly speaking, two kinds of prayer. “Kataphatic” prayer has content; it uses words, images, symbols, ideas. “Apophatic” prayer has no content. It means emptying the mind of words and ideas and simply resting in the presence of God.

The word “meditation” can be used in reference to both kataphatic and apophatic prayer. Some forms of Christian meditation involve the use of images or words. For instance, Ignatian meditation is meditation on experience and engages the imagination. Lectio Divina is meditation or contemplation of scripture stories and the intellect and experience and the imagination are engaged.

In this introduction to Christian Meditation we will be talking about and practicing apophatic prayer. Our meditation will be about emptying our minds of deliberate thoughts and ideas so that we can rest in the Deeper Reality, in the Ground of Being, in the Presence of the One who is beyond words and ideas. We will begin to practice meditation as simply resting in God.

Receptive Prayer:

Another way of thinking about the meditation that we will be practicing is this: it is a receptive way of prayer. Our task here is just to be open, available, and alert. We have no other agenda than being open in the time set aside, open to the presence of God

Why Meditation?

In future sessions we will delve further into the theory of meditation, the whys and whats of meditation. But for today consider this: in signing up for an “Introduction to Meditation” or in leading this, we will all have an answer to the question “why meditation?” We all have been drawn to this for some reason. You might consider the questions: “Why am I here? What do I hope to find?”

Consider these words from James Finley in his book Christian Meditation:
The intention of your heart leading you to [explore meditation] is a witness to a transformative journey, not of your own making that is already under way…

Christian Meditation?

Meditation is often associated with other faith traditions. Some will think it comes from the New Age movement. Zen Buddhism, Hinduism, Jewish Kabala and Sufi Islam all involve practices that resonate with the Christian practice of meditation. However, meditation is not foreign to our own faith tradition. The Christian tradition of meditation has its own long and rich history, one that goes back almost 2 millennia, to the Desert Fathers and Mothers of the 3rd Century.

“What makes meditation Christian? The faith with which you meditate – some sense of personal connection with Jesus. Then the historical scriptural and theological tradition in which we meditate.” (From the community of John Main OMI)

What is distinctive in the Christian tradition is that, as we enter into receptive prayer, we are opening ourselves to the God that we see in our Scripture, the God revealed in Jesus, the God who moves in us and around us in the Holy Spirit.

How do we meditate?

James Finley was a Trappist monk, who was tutored by the great Thomas Merton. From Merton and the Benedictine/Trappist tradition he was introduced to the practice of meditation but as he writes, not to a method. In a sense there is no one method of meditation. But there are some common practices.

Practical Matters

The Body:

• Sit still. Be present.
• Sit straight. Relaxed alertness.
• Close your eyes or lower them to the ground. Your focus is interior.
• Breathe slowly, deeply and naturally. It can be helpful to focus on your breath as you begin. The breath of life. The breath of God.
• Place your hands in a natural or meaningful position on your lap. If you wish to express openness you may want to place your hands in an open position

The Mind:

• Be present, open and awake
• Neither cling nor reject anything. Thoughts, feelings and images will arise, be present and then pass away. Just be present and open to them. It’s like watching a sunset, or admiring a painting. Just be present. We neither think our thoughts nor try not to have them. They are like clouds floating by in the sky, or like leaves blowing past on a windy autumn day.
• Similarly let external noises come and go.

The Spirit:

• Compassion: do not judge or evaluate yourself as you meditate. As thoughts arise or feelings present themselves, receive them and how you react to then with compassion.
To quote James Finley again, meditation is perplexing: “What is more we must be willing to befriend our perplexity as a way of dying to our futile efforts to grasp the ungraspable depths that meditation invites us to discover.” So whatever we experience in meditation is okay. Be compassionate with yourself in meditation. And as we learn to be compassionate towards ourselves, we may grow in compassion towards others too.

St. Teresa of Avila once said the human mind is like a boat where mutinous sailors have tied up the captain. The sailors all take a turn at steering the boat and of course the boat goes around in circles and eventually crashes on the rocks. That is our mind, says Teresa, full of thoughts taking us off in every direction. She also says ‘Distractions and the wandering mind are part of the human condition and can no more be avoided than eating and sleeping’.

• Be patient: with yourself, with your experience of meditation. Just taking the time to sit quietly with God is a big accomplishment that will be fruitful
• We must let go of goals and trying to achieve anything. Try to set aside the modern mindset of utility and accomplishment: Don’t worry about doing. Just Be.



The Place:

• Create a space for meditation: a room, a corner of a room…
• Use candles, images, symbols…whatever helps you to create a “Sacred Place”, a place set apart for being open to God.

The Time:

• To begin you might mark the beginning of this sacred time: light a candle, offer a prayer, read from the Bible or from some spiritual writing…
• To end you may also mark the conclusion of this time set apart: extinguish the flame, close the book, utter a prayer of thanks for the time with God…
• Try to set aside 20 or 25 minutes each day or as often as you can…Many teachers recommend the early morning
• Use a timer so you can forget about the passage of time. IPods, cell phones all have timers with alarms.
• Carve out the time by telling those you live with that you will be unavailable for a few minutes. Maybe turn off phone ringers etc.



Helpful aids to being present in the moment:

If we are struggling to be present to the moment there are some techniques that we can employ:

• Focus on your breathing, on the rhythm of your breath until you are present again

• Mantras: A repeated word or phrase can be used to help you be present to the moment. Below are some suggestions. A Scripture verse, a verse from a hymn that you love, some wise words from the Christian tradition… these can become a mantra for meditation. Some possible mantras are listed below.

Homework.

Create a space for meditation where you live and then try to spend 20-25 minutes each day, or as often as you can, for meditation. Record your experiences of meditation. And be patient and compassionate with yourself in this. (This homework will not be graded and you needn’t self evaluate either) Just be in meditation and whatever your experience, it`s ok.

We meet next on Sunday January 23.

Mantras


My God and my All" (St. Francis)

Psalm 24 The earth is the LORD’s, and everything in it,
the world, and all who live in it;

The Prayer of St. Francis of Assisi
Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
Where there is sadness, joy.
O divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
To be consoled as to console,
To be understood as to understand,
To be loved as to love;
For it is in giving that we receive;
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
It is in dying to self that we are born to eternal life.

Psalm 100
1 Shout for joy to the LORD, all the earth.
2 Worship the LORD with gladness;
come before him with joyful songs.
3 Know that the LORD is God.
It is he who made us, and we are his[a];
we are his people, the sheep of his pasture.
4 Enter his gates with thanksgiving
and his courts with praise;
give thanks to him and praise his name.
5 For the LORD is good and his love endures forever;
his faithfulness continues through all generations.

The Jesus Prayer—Perhaps the most time-honored Christian mantra prayer, practiced in the Eastern Churches for about 1600 years. There are many variations, ranging from: Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me a sinner – to - Lord Jesus have mercy upon me - to simply the name of- Jesus.

The Lord's prayer: Our Father, Who art in heaven, Hallowed by Thy name. Thy kingdom come, Thy Will be done on Earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For Thine is the kingdom and the Power and the Glory, for ever. Amen.

Let Nothing Upset You
Let nothing upset you;
Let nothing frighten you.
Everything is changing;
God alone is changeless.
Patience attains the goal.
Who has God lacks nothing;
God alone fills every need.
– Teresa of Avila

Psalm 23
1 The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing.
2 He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
3 he refreshes my soul.
He guides me along the right paths
for his name’s sake.
4 Even though I walk
through the darkest valley,[a]
I will fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.
5 You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.
6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me
all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the LORD
forever.

Maranatha.

The word Maranatha is the final instruction of St. Paul's teachings to the Corinthians, and is St. John's final instruction in the Book of Revelations. Thus, the last word, the final teaching of the entire Christian Bible is "Maranatha," which is Aramaic and means, "Come Lord."



Psalm 46:10“Be still and know that I am God.”

Psalm 37 “Rest in the Lord and wait patiently for him”

God is love

The Name of the Trinity: Creator, Christ, Holy Spirit

May Christ make his home in my heart (Ephesians 3)

Your grace O God is all I need (1 Corinthians 12:9)

My Lord and my God (John 20)

Jesus said: I will be with you always… (Matthew 28)